My Summer Vacation...

I remember elementary school vividly, thirty-five years ago. But I can't remember Tuesday, five days ago. Before one of you thinks, "what's wrong with this guy?", let me finish. It's not because I have some short-term memory issue. It's because last Tuesday was a regular routine day for me and elementary school was an adventure. We need to remember to look through the eyes of our children this summer and encourage that sense of adventure, theirs and ours.

Most American families are reeling in this recession. Worrying about their mortgage payments, the aging family sedan and the cost of remaining status quo has taken precedence to the annual family vacation, as well it should. But lest we forget, our children will not be children for long. And the opportunity we have to influence our children dwindles everytime a new "WiFi hotspot" is established. Even if there is not a lot of "extra" money to spend this summer. Spend it on the opportunity to bond with your children. It doesn't take much to "wow" a child.

Here are a few ideas that don't cost too much.

Go to the Beach, Forest, Mountains or Hills - Nature costs nothing. Raid the refrigerator and make some crazy-fun picnic. Break the "vegetable" rule for a day. Pack treats.
Go hiking, swimming, camping, exploring, beach combing or star gazing. Bring a Frisbee and the family pet. Start a campfire and roast weenies and marshmallows. Just because you think it may be boring, look into your child's eyes and tell me that it's not worth it. It's amazing how much fun your children can have on a tank of gas.
Museum Hop - If you live in or near the big city, plan a fun day of public transportation and museum hopping. Only spend a few hours at each place checking out the highlights. Remember this is for the children and their attention spans are not in tune with yours. Eat food from street vendors in the park, a pretzel can make someones day. Visit the biggest public library or check out the fire station to mix things up.
Tune into your Child's Hobbies - What are your child's favorite things? Focus on them and plan an itinerary around it. If he likes to bicycle, drive him to some trails or hills and ride them together. He will enjoy and laugh each time you have to push your bike to the top and scream on the way down. If she loves animals, go to the zoo, aquarium or Natural History Museum. If they are adrenaline junkies, encourage roller blading, skateboarding or an amusement park with white-knuckle rides. Try it yourself. Let them show you how. There is going to be some laughs at your expense, but it will be worth it.

Focus on your attitude and their desires. Family vacations are about quality family time without interruption. Trust me, we need it as much as they do. Watching your child's eyes grow, face smile and belly laugh goes a long way in recharging a parent's batteries. Best yet, when the first day of school returns and the teacher tells your child to write an essay on their summer vacation...there is no pause.

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